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I let the love of my life go, thinking she would never return, thinking I would some day get over her.
I married a woman I didn't love, thinking that I would change, feeling in my gut it was a bad idea but wanting to have faith it would work out. In Marriage Asked by Man Age : 47 2 Answers
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Are you happy with your marriage? Have you changed in the past 20 years and what about the love of your life? Has she become a different person? I think that there are many people that would make very good mates for us and not just limited to 1 person (soul mate). I guess it is tougher since you didn't love the person you married to begin with so it isn't like the love was lost. Sometimes your heart is influenced by your gut, and sometimes your gut is working on it's own which is hard to distinguish. What are your options and what are you looking for in a mate? We all regret some choices at one point or another in our lives. If you had never let this other woman go there is no guarantee that things would be better, they would just be different. Answered by trev4lcarpAge : 30 1 month ago Report Abuse
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You clearly have to find what you are looking for in a relationship. If you're still married to the second person you need to define what that relationship means to you. Love takes on different forms as we get older.Refine your definition of love to make sure it is consistent with what you are willing to give and receive in a relationship. Try not to repeat previous errors of trying to become for someone else the person you're really not. It really doesn't work and it's not fair to either person. Good luck and keep your heart open to the possibilities that lay ahead. Answered by kidsfor...Age : 38 1 month ago Report Abuse
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