Mrs Jackine,

Your 20 years old and you feel old enough to move out of your parent's house. Single and never had a boyfriend; well you should first titled yourself Mis Jackine. it's fortunate that you still live with your parents... are you still in College? Does your father pay for your courses? Then if so you shouldn't be complaining. Yes your old enough to have your independence... to have a boyfriend, go old on dates and coming home at the time that you want, and going to parties that your parents are to mature to understand. However you are under your parents roof and with that you must understand that they will be some restrictions on what you desire to do. On the other hand if you show your parents that you can comply to your duties in their house then you will be granted some privileges. Take it from me that I am 31 years old and I still live with my fokes which I love so much. I will tell you more if you write back to me... laurado28@hotmail.com I will be looking forward to your response..

Answered by Laury D...Age : 34 1 month ago Edit Delete

Answered by Laury Dominguez 1 month ago

It's all about a time and place. It all depends if you are ready both emotionally and financially to support yourself without any assistance from your family. If you answered no to either one of the two then you're probably not ready to move out. While you are still depended on your parents for support, you'll have to accept the restrictions. Unfortunately for most, parents no matter what the age of the individual they still have the image that their children are still a child in their eyes. You need to begin to attempt to enter into an honest conversation with your father about what are his expectation of you while you are living in his home. Ask him when and how he expects that these restrictions on you will change and what you can do to help him develop a sense of trust in you to do the right thing as an adult. You need to begin the conversation without emotion or pointing blame but one that gives him to share with you his true feelings. Parents want to protect and make sure that their children don't go through the same mistakes and issues that they went through. You'll know when it's time but don't rush into anything when you're emotional about the issue.

Answered by kidsfor...Age : 40 1 month ago Edit Delete

Answered by kidsforever 1 month ago