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Can being a compulsive buyer subsitute love? I am a young woman of 31 years of age and I've never had a boyfriend. I'd never been kissed. Lately, I think that what ever I buy I find that it relaxes my desire to being in love. It doesn't happen always but that's how I feel. In Life Choices Asked by Laury D... Age : 34 2 Answers Laury D... 273 Views 1 month ago Resolved Vote 2 Tweet Email to Friends Add to Favorites Question Badge Use this wwuask.com question badge in blogs, websites, forums. Copy and paste the HTML below:

I am a young woman of 31 years of age and I've never had a boyfriend. I'd never been kissed. Lately, I think that what ever I buy I find that it relaxes my desire to being in love. It doesn't happen always but that's how I feel.

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Being a compulsive buyer probably will not substitute love, at least not in the Judeo-Christian sense of the word. If shopping only relaxes your desire, you should pursue actually love by referring to Woman's recommendations. Answered by DosHachesAge : 30 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Posted by:DosHaches Age : 30 Date Added : Jun 9, 2010 Vote 0 I mistyped. I meant to say "actual" instead of "actually." What I mean to say is that instead of only temporarily quelling your desire for love by shopping, you should fulfill your desires completely by looking for actual relationships. And to do so, you should follow the recommendations suggested by Woman, the person who also gave you advice. Posted by:Laury Dominguez Age : 34 Date Added : Jun 7, 2010 Vote 0 DosHaches Excuse me but what do you mean by "if shopping only relaxes your desire, you should pursue actually love by referring to Woman's recommendations?" And is that a form of flattery? In addition shopping for personal things is not all in my life I just want to find a love in my life. Is that wrong? Answered by DosHaches 1 month ago
It is only natural that we find substitutes in our lives that help fulfill a need. It appears by your question that you would like to experience having a boyfriend and being kissed. In order for this to happen you need to put yourself in situations where you will meet people that might share a particular interest with you. Don't go out looking for a boyfriend but rather people to engage in conversation or volunteering to serve a particular cause. People often meet people of interest at social gathering, family events or a place of worship. If you're willing to take a chance and are very cautious you may want to try one of the on line dating service. Check out support groups on Craig's list and others. You might find that you are not alone but others might be looking to meet people just like you. Be patient and cautious. You will have a boyfriend if you really want one and you will be kissed sooner than you expect. Leave yourself open to the possibilities and the people around you. Answered by WomanAge : 37 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Posted by:Laury Dominguez Age : 34 Date Added : Jun 5, 2010 Vote 0 Dear Women Thank you for your reply; it’s always a pleasure hearing from your thoughts. In regards to your advice it’s not just the satisfaction of been kissed that I am looking for; rather I'm looking for someone that fills my soul, that understands me. In addition, that person that desires to be my boyfriend will have to accept me for who I am and must fill me spiritually. Of course any young women would love to have a passionate kiss but I'm looking for the true meaning of love without the need to be physical all the time. Hey thank you again Hear from you soon Laury Answered by Woman 1 month ago

Being a compulsive buyer probably will not substitute love, at least not in the Judeo-Christian sense of the word. If shopping only relaxes your desire, you should pursue actually love by referring to Woman's recommendations.

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I mistyped. I meant to say "actual" instead of "actually." What I mean to say is that instead of only temporarily quelling your desire for love by shopping, you should fulfill your desires completely by looking for actual relationships. And to do so, you should follow the recommendations suggested by Woman, the person who also gave you advice.

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Excuse me but what do you mean by "if shopping only relaxes your desire, you should pursue actually love by referring to Woman's recommendations?" And is that a form of flattery? In addition shopping for personal things is not all in my life I just want to find a love in my life. Is that wrong?

It is only natural that we find substitutes in our lives that help fulfill a need. It appears by your question that you would like to experience having a boyfriend and being kissed. In order for this to happen you need to put yourself in situations where you will meet people that might share a particular interest with you. Don't go out looking for a boyfriend but rather people to engage in conversation or volunteering to serve a particular cause. People often meet people of interest at social gathering, family events or a place of worship. If you're willing to take a chance and are very cautious you may want to try one of the on line dating service. Check out support groups on Craig's list and others. You might find that you are not alone but others might be looking to meet people just like you. Be patient and cautious. You will have a boyfriend if you really want one and you will be kissed sooner than you expect. Leave yourself open to the possibilities and the people around you.

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Thank you for your reply; it’s always a pleasure hearing from your thoughts. In regards to your advice it’s not just the satisfaction of been kissed that I am looking for; rather I'm looking for someone that fills my soul, that understands me. In addition, that person that desires to be my boyfriend will have to accept me for who I am and must fill me spiritually. Of course any young women would love to have a passionate kiss but I'm looking for the true meaning of love without the need to be physical all the time.
Hey thank you again
Hear from you soon
Laury

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