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Complications with mixed dating
Ok I have been dating someone for almost a year. Of course he is everything that I want and seek in a life partner. No complaints. Likewise he feels the same towards me.So why am I so worried? Well to start off he is thousands of miles away and so seeing him on a regular bases is totally out of the question. How to cope with this distance? Then comes the issue that we are both from different ethnic back ground as well as different religious back ground. Our social class is totally off balance . And to add to my concerns, family values plays a very important aspect in our lifes. What should be done in this situation and how to convincce our parents that everything will be ok ? Because several atempts were made and only resulted in failure.
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You, Yourself have answered the question. If family values are so important to you then how can you understand each other when you have two completely different backgrounds (especially religious). Think of the future, after you guys get married and have kids... What religious beliefs will the kids follow? what would the holidays be like when you have different customs? Distance is not the only issue at hand and you should seriously think about this before going further. Answered by LadyDeeAge : 31 1 month ago Edit Delete
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You are at the age of your life where you should be going out and exploring, having fun, being young and independent. There are many many people in this world that would work well in a relationship together. Being in a successful relationship is a tough undertaking. Good parents will always worry about their children being ok. Being thousands of miles away is far from the day to day relationship issues when you live together. It's good to have things in common to build a good foundation. Answered by trev4lcarpAge : 32 1 month ago Edit Delete
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Long distance dating is not really dating. This appears to be more of a friendship. A year is a relatvely short time at your age and based on the circumstances to assume that this will be your life partner. In any relatioship you need to assess the the postives and the negatives. it looks like you've shared more reasons why this relationship won't work versus any reason it might. you're young and you should give yourself more time to meet other people and reassess this realationship. Answered by kidsfor...Age : 40 1 month ago Edit Delete
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