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Death of a friendship. I had a friend of the opposite sex for 4yrs that was strictly platonic.Two days ago we got into a debate over something stupid I didn't take serious and he text me two days later and disrespected me I was shocked, hurt, angry everything at the same time. Out of all the years we've known each we've never disrespected each other I'm confused as to why he took it that far just because i caught him in a lie. I wasn't even worried about the lie he told because it wasn't a big deal. now his father is calling me and I don't wanna be bothered or be friends with him ever again. It just hurts that were were like blood nothing could break us and now I feel like I just got out of a terrible, horrible marriage.... I guess its true what they say , you never really know someone like you think you do.. How do I get over this? In Friendship Asked by harlemdime Age : 27 4 Answers harlemdime 263 Views 1 month ago Resolved Vote 1 Tweet Email to Friends Add to Favorites Question Badge Use this wwuask.com question badge in blogs, websites, forums. Copy and paste the HTML below:

Death of a friendship.

I had a friend of the opposite sex for 4yrs that was strictly platonic.Two days ago we got into a debate over something stupid I didn't take serious and he text me two days later and disrespected me I was shocked, hurt, angry everything at the same time. Out of all the years we've known each we've never disrespected each other I'm confused as to why he took it that far just because i caught him in a lie. I wasn't even worried about the lie he told because it wasn't a big deal. now his father is calling me and I don't wanna be bothered or be friends with him ever again. It just hurts that were were like blood nothing could break us and now I feel like I just got out of a terrible, horrible marriage.... I guess its true what they say , you never really know someone like you think you do.. How do I get over this?

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hi, thats really sad mabe you shouuld send him a letter and dont put your name or address.i would say something like i know you are mad but hear me out were one of a kind mabe you should give him space ttyl. Answered by kljp8Age : 32 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by kljp8 1 month ago
Harlemdime You say it was over something stupid that you were fighting over. Couldn't they have been someway you could have worked it out. Are you sure you are not in love with him or that he is in love with you. It may have been that he was trying to tell without telling you. My advice to you is to asks him what was it that got him like that. Let me know lanydo@hotmail.com Answered by lilyflyAge : 34 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by lilyfly 1 month ago
Harlemdime You said that you were friends with this guy of the opposite sex for four years and that it was strictly platonic. In addition, that you two were debating over something stupid that you didn't take seriously. Probably that's what happened you two didn't see eye too eye. You said the word platonic... let me ask you something: are you sure he wasn't in love with you? Or that you weren't in love with him? Its possible that he was reaching out to you in a way that wasn't to obvious... in giving off what he felt for you. Maybe you took what he said the wrong way... what could have been a disrespect for you might have been his way of arousing you. The way you could handle this problem is by calling him and find out what his intention was or is. Good look Let me know how it went. laurado28@hotmail.com Answered by Laury D...Age : 34 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by Laury Dominguez 1 month ago
How could you have been so close to this friend and now allow one major blow-up to end a relationship. Maybe you weren't as close as you thought because you're all set to get over this. Where does the truth really lie in this so called close friendship? Marriages don't normally end if one partner catches the other in a lie. Some of us at times may become emotional and say things we don't mean just as a defensive mechanism when we've being confronted with not being totally honest. If the friendship was close and important to you then extend the olive branch and give each other the opportunity to come clean and see if what went wrong can be repaired. Answered by kidsfor...Age : 40 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by kidsforever 1 month ago

hi,
thats really sad mabe you shouuld send him a letter and dont put your name or address.i would say something like i know you are mad but hear me out were one of a kind mabe you should give him space ttyl.

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Harlemdime

You say it was over something stupid that you were fighting over. Couldn't they have been someway you could have worked it out. Are you sure you are not in love with him or that he is in love with you. It may have been that he was trying to tell without telling you. My advice to you is to asks him what was it that got him like that.

Let me know

lanydo@hotmail.com

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Harlemdime

You said that you were friends with this guy of the opposite sex for four years and that it was strictly platonic. In addition, that you two were debating over something stupid that you didn't take seriously. Probably that's what happened you two didn't see eye too eye. You said the word platonic... let me ask you something: are you sure he wasn't in love with you? Or that you weren't in love with him? Its possible that he was reaching out to you in a way that wasn't to obvious... in giving off what he felt for you. Maybe you took what he said the wrong way... what could have been a disrespect for you might have been his way of arousing you. The way you could handle this problem is by calling him and find out what his intention was or is.

Good look
Let me know how it went.
laurado28@hotmail.com

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How could you have been so close to this friend and now allow one major blow-up to end a relationship. Maybe you weren't as close as you thought because you're all set to get over this. Where does the truth really lie in this so called close friendship? Marriages don't normally end if one partner catches the other in a lie. Some of us at times may become emotional and say things we don't mean just as a defensive mechanism when we've being confronted with not being totally honest. If the friendship was close and important to you then extend the olive branch and give each other the opportunity to come clean and see if what went wrong can be repaired.

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