Did I make the right choice by breaking up with my boyfriend so he could be there for his 8 children and his wife of 15 years?

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Did I make the right choice by breaking up with my boyfriend so he could be there for his 8 children and his wife of 15 years? We got together as a three way relationship and everything went up the wall and I was asked to leave the home by the courts so I ended it with him so he could be there for his children and wife and now he thinks its his wife's fault and it is not. In Sharing Asked by Melanie... Age : 26 7 Answers Melanie... 440 Views 1 month ago 1 month left to answer Vote 1 Tweet Report Abuse Email to Friends Add to Favorites Question Badge Use this wwuask.com question badge in blogs, websites, forums. Copy and paste the HTML below:

We got together as a three way relationship and everything went up the wall and I was asked to leave the home by the courts so I ended it with him so he could be there for his children and wife and now he thinks its his wife's fault and it is not.

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You really did make the right choice..he 8 children that should be his main concern..you have to realize these children need him..when you bring children into this world they should always come first..you have to be there for them..no matter what.. Answered by bootsAge : 69 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete Vote 0 Add comments Answered by boots 1 month ago
Definitely!!!!!!!! Answered by bootsAge : 69 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete Vote 0 Add comments Answered by boots 1 month ago
Response to question received in email to wwuask Top Question of the Day. Omg! Please don't believe the guy, you could find your own guy. It's not worth it to be a 3 wheel...what's in it for you to be with a guy who has 8 children. Don't forget he needs to pay a child support, so you got nothing left. You are still young to end up right that. if you could get back to school and look for the future, you should do that. Answered by Dr TAge : 56 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete Vote 0 Add comments Answered by Dr T 1 month ago
Response to question received in email to wwuask Top Question of the Day. Don't know why anyone would want to be in a relationship like that in the first place. I would tell his wife to tie his manhood in a knot. I think you did the right thing leaving since none of kids were yours you are young and you will get over it in time and when it comes to fault I think this man should take long hard look in mirror. Answered by Dr TAge : 56 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete Vote 0 Add comments Answered by Dr T 1 month ago
and your 25? where do i start? this is only my opinion so don't take it personal. you asked.did you really expect things to go great with you, the wife, and you? can't you find your own man? there's alot out there that would love a 3way. i'm sure but why would you even go there with a married guy? even if it might of been there idea.what kind of example to his 8 kids is that?i don't put all the blame on you and either should you. you say the wife feels like it's her fault ? well it is. excuse my language but any stupid bitch that allows another bitch in to her household ledalone her bed and thinks every things going to be hunkydory afterwards. give me a break she deserves what she gets. or doesn't get. as for your qestion. yes you made the right chice and have some self respect your young and there's alot to try but, if you have to share your bed. do it with as many as you want. just have some class. Answered by dianaAge : 52 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete Vote 0 Add comments Answered by diana 1 month ago
Response received on wwuask email Top Question of the Day. Omg! Please don't believe the guy, you could find your own guy. It's not worth it to be a 3 wheel...what's in it for you to be with a guy who has 8 children. Don't forget he needs to pay a child support, so you got nothing left. You are still young to end up right that. if you could get back to school and look for the future, you should do that. Answered by Dr TAge : 56 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete Vote 0 Add comments Answered by Dr T 1 month ago
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You really did make the right choice..he 8 children that should be his main concern..you have to realize these children need him..when you bring children into this world they should always come first..you have to be there for them..no matter what..

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Omg! Please don't believe the guy, you could find your own guy. It's not worth it to be a 3 wheel...what's in it for you to be with a guy who has 8 children. Don't forget he needs to pay a child support, so you got nothing left.
You are still young to end up right that. if you could get back to school and look for the future, you should do that.

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Don't know why anyone would want to be in a relationship like that in the first place. I would tell his wife to tie his manhood in a knot. I think you did the right thing leaving since none of kids were yours you are young and you will get over it in time and when it comes to fault I think this man should take long hard look in mirror.

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and your 25? where do i start? this is only my opinion so don't take it personal. you asked.did you really expect things to go great with you, the wife, and you? can't you find your own man? there's alot out there that would love a 3way. i'm sure but why would you even go there with a married guy? even if it might of been there idea.what kind of example to his 8 kids is that?i don't put all the blame on you and either should you. you say the wife feels like it's her fault ? well it is. excuse my language but any stupid bitch that allows another bitch in to her household ledalone her bed and thinks every things going to be hunkydory afterwards. give me a break she deserves what she gets. or doesn't get. as for your qestion. yes you made the right chice and have some self respect your young and there's alot to try but, if you have to share your bed. do it with as many as you want. just have some class.

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Omg! Please don't believe the guy, you could find your own guy. It's not worth it to be a 3 wheel...what's in it for you to be with a guy who has 8 children. Don't forget he needs to pay a child support, so you got nothing left.
You are still young to end up right that. if you could get back to school and look for the future, you should do that.

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