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Do you think it's appropiate for a 30 year old women to date a 23 year old?
I Have a friend who is driving me crazy. she met this guy who is younger than her and feels as though she needs to stop talking to him.She often tells me that she really likes this guy,but feels the age difference is not going to work for them.She tells me that they both love each other and he makes her very happy,but she is really hung up over the age issue.I don't know what to tell her. she is really confused.I told her that if she really loves this guy she should try to give it a chance.I don't know what else to say to her about this issue,but i hate to see her lose this guy if they was meant to be together. please help me help my friend with her decision.
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I think that big age gaps in relationships are a touchy subject. It all depends on the intentions you have with the person. If you are an older person seeking to settle down you should definitely find out what your younger partner has in mind for the relationship. I think that it is only fair to let them live a little before settling down. But if your both on the same page then do what makes you happy. Answered by LadyG82Age : 30 1 month ago Edit Delete
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If you share the common interests and you're both happy than HEY, WHY NOT?? You live your life. Don't let others tell you it's wrong. Fight for what you believe in. Answered by MissCristyAge : 22 1 month ago Edit Delete
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Age is nothing but a number and you are both adults. there is no reason for outside forces to dictate who you want to date when you are already quiet campable of deciding things yourself. Don't let what people say get in the way of what could be a great relationship. Answered by StefanyAge : 21 1 month ago Edit Delete
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My advice would be for your friend to start living in the present and stop living for other people. If she is happy now with this person then age or what others may think shouldn't matter. If she still can't get past the age difference then she really needs to end the relationship and move on because life is way too short to be harping on things that make you unhappy. Answered by AuntEAge : 31 1 month ago Edit Delete
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Life is complicated. If it were the reverse and she were a guy most people wouldn't care. Every situation is different and we base our assumptions that we will all reach the ripe old age of 90. So if she's 90 then he'd be 83, hm who will be taking care of whom? He could die of cancer when he's 63 and she'll be a widow when she's 70. They could get married in 2 years and be divorced the following year. The decision should be based on how they feel for each other and what are their financial and personal plans for the future. Compatibility must be based on love for each other and a common goal and purpose for the future. Answered by ManAge : 49 1 month ago Edit Delete
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Keep in mind men mature emotionally slower than women. Thus even though your friend might be sure of her feelings, she has to make sure her partner is also sure of what he feels. And they should also think of the future, if the age difference would be an issue, when he is 33 and she is 40 and so on... Answered by nychelpAge : 29 1 month ago Edit Delete
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