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Eve

Never give up on love. First of all you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Your other half is out there you just have to be patient. Good luck and have fun with single life. Be blessed.

Answered by EveAge : 49 1 month ago Edit Delete

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Zedek

I guess everyone is looking for someone who will meet their expectations. Given that as a valid statement, who will shed the blood on the humble alter? Now you are carrying a living baggage and also want his expectations to be met by the poor slave (since when was slavery abolished?); Aren't you alone expecting too much in this world, sister?

Now this is a suggesting: See if you can burn that mentality of "have not met my expectations." Next See if you can prepare yourself to accomodate mature understanding between human beings and live in that state without any selfish demands . Then seek God and pray to Him for the right life and true love with an understanding partner. God bless

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lilyfly

Ladydee the problem may not be in the person you meet, it may be you. You are probably scaring the men you come in contact with. Slow down, let that special person get to know you and then your son. You will find yourself not working that hard. And he may just come when you least espect it.Love is the one thing that never end. Think about it.

And remember give yourself time.

Hope this helps

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LadyDee

Posted by:LadyDee Age : 31 Date Added : May 6, 2010 Thumbs up Vote 0

Am I a woman scorn, yes! Do I judge every man according to my bad experiences, no, but I will be on guard until "He" proves to be trustworthy. As far as time goes, It has been about one or two years in between before moving on the "next one" My child will soon be 8 and I can honestly say that I have probably dated about 3 people since my baby was born.
Because of my experiences with men I have learned that I shouldnt settle, I know what I need and deserve, and if I need to scare away Verbally abusive, jealous, insecure men then I will continue to do so.

Man

You may have given up on love if you expect that a man will be able to meet all of your expectations. You will need to reevaluate how much time you will give the men you date before deciding that they don't meet your expectations. Being a single mother with a child reduces the number of available men willing to enter a relationship. Maybe in place of respect and honor you may look for love and care for you and your child. In your current situation you should probably be looking for friendship that might eventually evolve into love. The "get to know you" process will probably be much longer than when you were single. Don't give up on love and it will eventually find you.

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LadyDee

Posted by:LadyDee Age : 31 Date Added : May 6, 2010 Thumbs up Vote 0

I don’t expect a man to meet ALL my expectations. But understand that I don’t go out purposely searching for love, it comes to me. For example, my last relationship was with a man I had known & met through a family member of his. He approached me, told me how he felt, I in turn told him that it would be best that we get to know each other SLOWLY & in due time we can see where it can go. After maybe 2 months I thought that it would be ok & date a bit more seriously but then he became possessive, jealous & questioned my every move. I am an open book and have no secrets especially with the person I’m with, I believe in communicating my thoughts, feelings & experiences just so there are no questions later. I sat down with him told him how I felt & gave him another chance to which he didn’t change & made the decision to walk away from it all.