How do I get over a long term relationship when still in love with him?

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How do I get over a long term relationship when still in love with him? Mutual decision to end relationship. Getting unhealthy and going nowhere still very heart broken and lonely. In Love Asked by Sherr Age : 42 6 Answers Sherr 736 Views 1 month ago Resolved Vote 1 Tweet Email to Friends Add to Favorites Question Badge Use this wwuask.com question badge in blogs, websites, forums. Copy and paste the HTML below:

Mutual decision to end relationship. Getting unhealthy and going nowhere still very heart broken and lonely.

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girl u need to take one day at a time....not sayn its gone b easy but u must do wats best for you....also try going out with ya gurls to keep your mind off the situation cuz it will kill u just thinking about it to much Answered by TirmardriaAge : 21 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by Tirmardria 1 month ago
Sherr How to get over a long term relationship is not always easy, especially when you shared so much. How long was your relationship with your boyfriend? My advice to you is to let him go, if he sees that your with someone else and your happy then that means that he still loves you but it will be too late ... unless you want it that way. Like the old saying in Spanish "donde hubo fuego cenizas quedan." That means "where love ones was ashes remains" Answered by Laury D...Age : 34 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by Laury Dominguez 1 month ago
I personally don't think you ever get over someone. You will always have a special place in your heart. Time is one of the only things that heal and you usually get tired of people telling you that. You can find all the negatives in him but usually the positives of love outway the negatives. There is always another love and sometimes it's right in front of you and you don't know it. Just be patient and realize sometimes when they are alive and near you it's harder, but eventually you will cope. I promise, it does get better and there are usually more than one person to love and love you back. Good Luck. Answered by Angelba...Age : 54 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by Angelbabe76 1 month ago
Hide and bury the Pain is the goal here Sherr - most times we "Stay Busy" or "Get Back Out There" but for some people it is finding those things that provide protection to them; maybe thats staying in all the time and watching ten movies a day for months on end, or gaining ten more pounds eating your favorite ice cream each night - whatever it is that gets you through this is what will work for You, so do so without the added guilt of Not Staying Busy or Getting Back Out There - Good Luck. Answered by Washing...Age : 48 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by Washington Guy 1 month ago
Get out there and date! Set up a profile in all of the free dating sites and just date.... all the time. get specific in what you say you are looking for and try to get as close to it as possible. My brother was recently divorced and he is having the time of his life... at 50. :) Enjoy! Answered by LazAge : 44 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by Laz 1 month ago
The answer may be in your question. You're heartbroken and lonely. When we're lonely we often focus on those times when we thought we were the happiest. You have to allow yourself to move on and replace that void with new friends and new activities. You will never move forward if you just spent time dwelling in the past. Look at every day as a new beginning to be explored and enjoyed. Plan and focus your activities around positive people who have plans for their lives. You will no longer be lonely if you create a plan for what you want out of life and begin every day to live it. Surround yourself with positive people that's the key to moving forward and not feeling lonely. Remember the past but don't dwell on it. Answered by GoodscoutAge : 31 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by Goodscout 1 month ago

girl u need to take one day at a time....not sayn its gone b easy but u must do wats best for you....also try going out with ya gurls to keep your mind off the situation cuz it will kill u just thinking about it to much

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How to get over a long term relationship is not always easy, especially when you shared so much. How long was your relationship with your boyfriend? My advice to you is to let him go, if he sees that your with someone else and your happy then that means that he still loves you but it will be too late ... unless you want it that way. Like the old saying in Spanish "donde hubo fuego cenizas quedan." That means "where love ones was ashes remains"

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I personally don't think you ever get over someone. You will always have a special place in your heart. Time is one of the only things that heal and you usually get tired of people telling you that. You can find all the negatives in him but usually the positives of love outway the negatives. There is always another love and sometimes it's right in front of you and you don't know it. Just be patient and realize sometimes when they are alive and near you it's harder, but eventually you will cope. I promise, it does get better and there are usually more than one person to love and love you back. Good Luck.

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Hide and bury the Pain is the goal here Sherr - most times we "Stay Busy" or "Get Back Out There" but for some people it is finding those things that provide protection to them; maybe thats staying in all the time and watching ten movies a day for months on end, or gaining ten more pounds eating your favorite ice cream each night - whatever it is that gets you through this is what will work for You, so do so without the added guilt of Not Staying Busy or Getting Back Out There - Good Luck.

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Get out there and date! Set up a profile in all of the free dating sites and just date.... all the time. get specific in what you say you are looking for and try to get as close to it as possible. My brother was recently divorced and he is having the time of his life... at 50. :)

Enjoy!

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The answer may be in your question. You're heartbroken and lonely. When we're lonely we often focus on those times when we thought we were the happiest. You have to allow yourself to move on and replace that void with new friends and new activities. You will never move forward if you just spent time dwelling in the past. Look at every day as a new beginning to be explored and enjoyed. Plan and focus your activities around positive people who have plans for their lives. You will no longer be lonely if you create a plan for what you want out of life and begin every day to live it. Surround yourself with positive people that's the key to moving forward and not feeling lonely. Remember the past but don't dwell on it.

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