How do u help a person who lies and u know they are lying so they don't get their feelings hurt?

This is my wife and am trying to understand why she has to lie to me. I have never touch my wife in any bad way and never hit her. She has great kids whom I love so much Isaac and Corrina. We been married 5 yrs in Dec 9 2010. There is a lot to be said but to keep it short I'll just say I am 51 and she is 32. I came from an abused family when I was a child by my cousin. From 5 to 15.But I think I worked through it from my hard life marriage at 21 for the first time was not ready. It lasted 5yr. I broke my first wife heart by cheating among other things. Worked basically all my life good job and bad job. My second wife whom I married at 35, sex and drugs she got bone cancer after 3yrs of marriage. I stopped the drugs to take are of her for 16 months had to quit my job to do that. It was hard at first but I just gave it to god and he changed my heart to do the right thing. Now to my new wife she only girl baby all her life by mother and father. She very smart when it comes to books smart but common sense she does not have. She does small jokes play around. It is hard to raise other people children when u have not been show how by your mother and father that is what has happened to my wife. Two great kid 1 boy and 1 girl i been raising them from baby. Issac was 2 when we met Corrina was 7. Now he is 7 and she is 12. So that's why I'm asking that question. It's hard trying to do the right thing when your wife lies too much and u are trying to do the right thing plus taking care of her fattier now because he is sick by the way she does have an older brother who doesn't come around alot. Her mother left her father for his best friend when my wife turned 18.

In Raising Children Asked by Anthony... Age : 53 2 Answers