I am the eldest son of my dad, I have one sister but we don't' talk. Who organises my dad's funeral?

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I am the eldest son of my dad, I have one sister but we don't' talk. Who organises my dad's funeral? In Bereavement & Loss Asked by Moggy H... Age : 47 5 Answers Moggy H... 266 Views 1 month ago 1 month left to answer Vote 1 Tweet Report Abuse Email to Friends Add to Favorites Question Badge Use this wwuask.com question badge in blogs, websites, forums. Copy and paste the HTML below:

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The one thing both of you have to understand is that both of you are brothers and sisters and should act as such. No matter what your differences were in the past your dad would be happy knowing you are both taking care of one another.Both of you should get together and talk about your feelings and then remember to do it for your father Sorry for your loss. Hope you work out your differences with your sister in memory of your father. God bless Answered by lilyflyAge : 34 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete Vote 0 Add comments Answered by lilyfly 1 month ago
Response to your question received in the wwuask email. If you have any love and or respect for your father presuming he is already passed on then there is no question. Answered by webmasterAge : 44 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete Vote 1 Add comments Answered by webmaster 1 month ago
This response to your question was received in wwuask email. You must speak to your sister. Contact her and say that you both have some Legal issues regarding the death of your father. The first thing you both must do is look for a will. Your father might have already taken out a policy to cover funeral costs etc. Your sister and you are adults, and now is a very important time in your life to act like responsible grown up's and share the responsibility of sending your father off in a dignified manner. Forget the past, because if you don't get together and do the correct thing now, you will suffer for the rest of your life and take your guilt to the grave with you. I feel so sorry for you, if you don't sort this out now it will haunt you to the grave. The older you get, the worse it becomes. Answered by Dr TAge : 56 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete Vote 0 Add comments Answered by Dr T 1 month ago
who says it has to be one or the other?since your the eldest son it's time to manup and put all personal feeling aside. no one says you even have to continue speaking after this.just try and remember she's your sister and he was her father too.everyone handeles a loss like that differently. sorry for your loss and God Bless. Answered by dianaAge : 52 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete Vote 0 Add comments Answered by diana 1 month ago
It's probably time to begin talking to your sister and organize this important event together. There are not any set rules that I am aware of that gives this responsibility to either sibling. Your dad would probably happy knowing that his death has brought the two of you back together again. Answered by GoodscoutAge : 31 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete Vote 0 Add comments Answered by Goodscout 1 month ago

The one thing both of you have to understand is that both of you are brothers and sisters and should act as such. No matter what your differences were in the past your dad would be happy knowing you are both taking care of one another.Both of you should get together and talk about your feelings and then remember to do it for your father

Sorry for your loss. Hope you work out your differences with your sister in memory of your father.

God bless

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Response to your question received in the wwuask email.

If you have any love and or respect for your father presuming he is already passed on then there is no question.

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This response to your question was received in wwuask email.

You must speak to your sister. Contact her and say that you both have some Legal issues regarding the death of your father.

The first thing you both must do is look for a will. Your father might have already taken out a policy to cover funeral costs etc.

Your sister and you are adults, and now is a very important time in your life to act like responsible grown up's and share the responsibility of sending your father off in a dignified manner.

Forget the past, because if you don't get together and do the correct thing now, you will suffer for the rest of your life and take your guilt to the grave with you.
I feel so sorry for you, if you don't sort this out now it will haunt you to the grave. The older you get, the worse it becomes.

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who says it has to be one or the other?since your the eldest son it's time to manup and put all personal feeling aside. no one says you even have to continue speaking after this.just try and remember she's your sister and he was her father too.everyone handeles a loss like that differently. sorry for your loss and God Bless.

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It's probably time to begin talking to your sister and organize this important event together. There are not any set rules that I am aware of that gives this responsibility to either sibling. Your dad would probably happy knowing that his death has brought the two of you back together again.

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