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Laury D...

Brownsugar

Hi, my name is Laury and I'm hundred percent prolife no eceptions. The question is if you can still have a baby after a year of having an abortion? The answer is yes, but, why would you want too at this rate? You killed your first child so what would it be different now?
However, Brownsugar this is a touchy situation and if you really want a child then you should really consider in keeping it. If God gives you the opportunity of having another baby don't loose the opportunity.
Laury

Answered by Laury D...Age : 34 1 month ago Edit Delete

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jeri3303

Yes you can still have a child, but the question I have for you is If you want them now at the age of 17? If you had an abortion before, obviously you felt like you couldn't or shouldn't have had a child at the moment for what ever reason, so what changed from then to now? Why would you want to bring children into the world again, is it because you feel guilty or are there other reasons? I have had an abortion also and would not bring children into this world until I am certain the time would be right. Your too young give yourself an opportunity to experience life.

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Leisa

Hi Brownsugar,
Please take my advise to heart because you are so young. I had a child at a young age. It was so hard to care for him even with the help of family. My sons father, well lets just say he was neither father or husband material. i gave up a lot to have him. High school, college, friends slowly dwindled away, terrible jobs and salary. Children are a blessing, they are, but...there is a proper time to have them. Please finish high school..go to college. The best gift you can give to yourself and your children is an education so you can support them without struggling.So you can have a home with a yard, so you can give them music lessons, sports, strong bodies and minds. Give them an opportunity to become something great like you can do for yourself with an education. Life is so hard and the economy is so tight. Things are going to get harder before they become better and you are so young and you have the best opportunity to do so much with your life right now. Make your life strong, build your life up. Get the best education you can now...your mind can absorb so much information without the distractions a child would bring. Children will come. After I had my first I had two abortions, two miscarriages, and two more healthy children all before I turned 29. I did manage to go to college but it took me 5 years to complete a 2 year program. Please, Please get your education first so you can say,yes I am ready.I can now give my children EVERYTHING.I am much older now, I love my children, but you don't know how much I wished my choices could have been different so I could have given more to my children. Don't make the same mistake. Get your education first. There is plenty of time to have children in the future. Good Luck God Bless You

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Laury D...

Posted by:Laury Dominguez Age : 34 Date Added : Mar 7, 2010 Thumbs up Vote 0

Brownsugar

Hi Brownsugar,

Is Laury writing again I feel that you are not ready to have a baby right now after your abortion; your bodies cemistry goes through so many changes that you can end up having a miscarriage. At this point in your life prepare yourself. Get an education go to College. Your young and you need to grow up mentally, a person that has her frist abortion is still juvenial.

With much luck and love
Laury