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I hate my four year old son but love my two year old do I need professional help I had problems in my childhood my mother left when I was a child I got abused can someone give me something to work wi
When I was pregnant with my daughter I started disliking my son. I tried to be affectionate and love him but I can't. Could my childhood have something to do with it? I was physically and verbally abused, Favoritism was show my family was there but wasn't. We went into foster care and they acted like they couldn't even take us. Only one uncle and his wife tried to but if it was someone else. I bet they would have taken them. I really don't know my mother and her family. I need some answers why am I'm like this with him? In Raising Children Asked by misunde... Age : 23 2 Answers
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This is a tough situation, I would be careful about using the word "hate"- it's a harsh word. I think you answered your own question in realizing that you may be repeating family patterns. Sounds like you did not get the support you needed as a child. I have friends and relatives who are survivors of child abuse and they are parents and have not repeated this cycle. They did it by talking to lots of friends and through receiving counseling. Your child is young and needs your compassion and love. Do the work on yourself, get the healing you need to learn to love him- he is your own blood. Also, be kind to yourself. The fact that you are asking for help is a good first step- go get it- you deserve it. Answered by pcardAge : 32 1 month ago Edit Delete
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You sure do need help. Maybe someone to talk to your young and need to under stand why you feel this.you can cause your child to have problems I can tell you childern needs lots of love so they can grow and they are not stupid they know how you feel. get help my friend. Jo Answered by JoAnn G...Age : 64 1 month ago Edit Delete
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