My wife and I had 5 losses and none of them are easy. but you need to know you have a little angel looking down on you. stay busy and with love and support you will get through this rough time best of luck Mike

Answered by mikeAge : 55 1 month ago Edit Delete

Answered by mike 1 month ago

I'm sorry for your lost. The best thing you could do is not isolate yourself. Try and push yourself to be around with the people and family that love and care for you. Their love and support could help you get back on your feet. I don't know if your religious in anyway but if you are you could try a prayer and reach out to God. In time He'll take the pain away also He could help you get on your feet. You could try this prayer on depression: "The eyes of the Lord are on me, and His ears are open to my cry...When I cry out, the Lord hears, and delivers me out of all my troubles. (Psalm 34:15,17) or this prayer on comfort: "Our Lord Jesus Christ Himself and God our Father, Who loved us and gave us everlasting consolation and encouragement and well founded hope through [His] grace (unmerited favor), comforts and encouraged my heart and strengthens me [makes me steadfast and keeps me unswerving] in every good work and word." 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17


I hope this helps. You could also try health escapes like being in the out doors, not being closed in, this will help push you to move on and become happier in time.

Answered by Toxic A...Age : 21 1 month ago Edit Delete

Answered by Toxic Angel 1 month ago

I am sorry for your loss. You will heal in time. Try to surround yourself around people who will help keep your spirits up. Do not isolate yourself. Find out if there are support groups with people who are going through the same thing. If not, you should start one on-line. In the meantime, try and seek therapy, you may be suffering with depression. You are young, you will recover. Go back to work, find out if you could get your job back. Sitting around will only make you feel worse. When the time is right, mother nature will bless you with a beautiful family!! God bless you!

Answered by skeeteAge : 39 1 month ago Edit Delete

Answered by skeete 1 month ago

I am sorry to hear you ahve to go through such a desperate situation. Here si some information that has helped friends that have had to go through that:

Miscarriage and Stillbirth—Mothers Grieve





Though she already had other children, Monna was eagerly looking forward to the birth of her next child. Even before the birth, it was a baby she "played with, talked to, and dreamed of."

The bonding process between mother and unborn child was powerful. She continues: "Rachel Anne was a baby who kicked books off my belly, kept me awake at night. I can still remember the first little kicks, like gentle, loving nudges. Every time she moved, I was filled with such a love. I knew her so well that I knew when she was in pain, when she was sick."

Monna continues her account: "The doctor wouldn't believe me until it was too late. He told me to stop worrying. I believe I felt her die. She just suddenly turned over violently. The next day she was dead."

Monna's experience is no isolated event. According to authors Friedman and Gradstein, in their book Surviving Pregnancy Loss, about one million women a year in the United States alone suffer an unsuccessful pregnancy. Of course, the figure worldwide is much greater.

People often fail to realize that a miscarriage or a stillbirth is a tragedy for a woman and one she remembers—perhaps all her life. For example, Veronica, now up in years, recalls her miscarriages and especially remembers the stillborn baby that was alive into the ninth month and was born weighing 13 pounds [6 kg]. She carried it dead inside her for the last two weeks. She said: "To give birth to a dead baby is a terrible thing for a mother."

The reactions of these frustrated mothers is not always understood, even by other women. A woman who lost her child by miscarriage wrote: "What I have learned in a most painful way was that before this happened to me, I really had no idea of what my friends had to bear. I had been as insensitive and ignorant toward them as I now feel people are to me."

Another problem for the grieving mother is the impression that her husband may not feel the loss as she does. One wife expressed it this way: "I was totally disappointed in my husband at the time. As far as he was concerned, there really was no pregnancy. He could not experience the grief that I was going through. He was very sympathetic to my fears but not to my grief."

This reaction is perhaps natural for a husband—he does not undergo the same physical and emotional bonding that his pregnant wife does. Nevertheless, he suffers a loss. And it is vital that husband and wife realize that they are suffering together, although in different ways. They should share their grief. If the husband hides it, his wife may think he is insensitive. So share your tears, thoughts, and embraces. Show you need each other as never before. Yes, husbands, show your empathy.

FROM WHEN SOMEONE YOU LOVE DIES BROCHURE 1994 by JEHOVAHS WITNESSES

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