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Is my son being abused by my brother?
My son is nearly six and my brother is 12 and the other day I sneaked upstairs to see if my brother was teaching my son swear words because my sons behaviour has gotten really bad towards me and his sister .. however when I got up there where I thought they were playing on the games console I saw my 12 year old brother pretending a sex act on my son and also touching him on his privates underneath clothing. I've asked my son after if any one has told him to keep secrets or done anything there not suppose to but he just changes the subject , I don't know what to think ! Is my son being abused or was it completely innocent?
joe
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i will say that its not wrong.and maybe nothing really happen between them.you can't be sure of what was going through their minds. they may have been doing something else. so be careful how you ask your questions. and when you are doing so use love, and kindness in doing that. don't shout at any of them. Answered by DamilolaAge : 20 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete
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your right it cud be completly innocent but chances are its not, it sounds as though your brother has being abused most likely by some1 else in your family and now may grow up to think its completly normal and it happens to everyone, its not a sit down talk between you and him or who ever in your family its professional help he needs !! Answered by aoifeAge : 19 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete
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This is abuse! Please take action. I was raped for 10 years by 13ppl, I had my mom's mom walk in on it going on when i was 4 and she never did anything! And it just continued. Please help your child even if it were just curiosity it can get worse!! Answered by tahcorg...Age : 23 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete
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That is actually abuse in some degree, you need to keep your son away from him and let him know what his cousin did is wrong tell him no one is supposed to touch him there except for you or a medical doctor or your son is being exposed to doing the same to someone else then you well be in a world of trouble , 12 years old is old enough to know better, better yet try to find out were the cousin picked this up from , has someone done that to him or even worse. good luck and God bless Answered by rosaAge : 41 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete
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Your brother is at an age where he is very curious and about to enter puberty. You have control as to when they are together and monitor that period and have them play in some proximity to you. This behavior is not uncommon but guidance and supervision are important. Suggest to your father or another male in the family to make themselves available to talk to your brother if he begins to show signs of curiosity about the opposite sex. Answered by kidsfor...Age : 40 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete
Posted by:Lynn Balderstone
Age : 23
Date Added : Jun 26, 2011
your brother know's what is right and wrong!!! he should know that....you need to sit your son down and ask him straight up becouse he WILL try to hide it if he has been told to keep quiet act fast and stop this becouse it's just plain and simply wrong!!! i wish you all the best in sorting this out |
