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Lost my son to leukemia and having trouble accepting...was so sure that he would beat it..and being his mother also feel guilty about not helping him face what he was going through .
In Bereavement & Loss Asked by lost Age : 60 4 Answers
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Lost Answered by Laury D...Age : 34 1 month ago Edit Delete |
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First thing you are a brave woman to admit that you are having trouble coping with your loss. Some people would just shut down and fall into depression and addiction, but you are confronting your lose. There is no simple praise to make a mother feel better over the loss of her child. Time will help heal your pain. But you have nothing to feel guilty about. Just keep in mind that your son fought to the end with this illness. He is in Gods hands right now and you will be together with him again one day. Answered by lilyflyAge : 34 1 month ago Edit Delete |
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I'm saddened to hear of your loss and the burden of guilt you are experiencing. I believe that being a parent doesn't come with a manual and especially when life throws you a curve ball. The spirit that you shared with your son of not giving up and accepting defeat should serve you well. You gave him hope and strength and because of that spirit your son is still with you. You need to give yourself permission to accept you did the best you could because of your love for your son. Allow yourself to accept that giving a loved one hope and strength during impossible times is done out of love and nothing to feel guilty about. If you have not already seek out a support group of parents who may be having similar feelings of loss and guilt. Keep his spirit alive by helping other individuals needing help and support as you are. I will keep you in my prayers. Answered by kidsfor...Age : 40 1 month ago Edit Delete |