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Me and my boyfriend got in a fight last nite and now he says he knows i cheated on him and i never did that and I don't know what to do because he doesn't believe me when I tell him I haven't
I have tried talking to him but he doesn't want to talk about it at all. He's the type of that thinks he knows it all and has all the answers. It's like I win for losing...please help. We have been together for almost a year now and I love him so much. I just can't stand the way he talks to me with disrespect and treats me like shit. I would love to find a solution to this without leaving him if at all possible. also last night when we were fighting he tells me his ex-girlfriend was the most gorgeous girl he has ever been with and that he didn't care if that hurt me or not i really want to make this work with him!
Tamara
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If he doesn't beleive you then that means he's insurcure about himself. He could be afraid of losing you but what he said doesn't make it ok. You could pray for help in your relationship too. You could take time out for your self to think. It isn't right he mistreats you. You could ask God for help in the relatioship, for comfort, healing, love,strenghten and a way to make it work if its possible. I recommend Joyce Meyer. God bless you. Answered by Toxic A...Age : 21 1 month ago Edit Delete
Posted by:Tamara
Age : 21
Date Added : Aug 19, 2010
so last nite we talked and got in an actually fist fight but y do u i still want him so badlythe past 5 days we have been broken up all i can do is cry and hope and pray that he calls y does shit have to be so complicated???? |
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Alright...ive had da same experience...no1 da dude is so insecure..no2 if he thinks his ex is better off..wat da heck is he doin wiv u in da first place..no3 da root of a relationship is based on trust & if he cant trust u...i think dats a huge problem...no4..plz plz plz...dnt let any guy make u feel bad...dnt underestimate urself..u are a rear breed & wonderfully made by God..i spent 4yrs and 5months datin my ex who was busy cheatin on me...he was so insecure & treated me like shit, i cudnt leave him coz i always felt i wnt find any other guy better dan him...omg...after we broke up...i felt dat was da end of da world...i nearly killed myself...until i met my new guy who cant do without me, treat me like a princess...he can give me his life...infact we gettin married next 2months...so plz dnt think he is da best Answered by brooklynAge : 33 1 month ago Edit Delete
Posted by:Tamara
Age : 21
Date Added : Aug 16, 2010
i just wanna die without him i love him so much but he doesnt care about me anymore pretty much just told me that i dont wanna hurt anymore i just wanna go be with my dad and grandpa i dont understand its like my words and tears mean absolutely nothing to him i dont kno how to let him go i have never wanted to be with some1 so bad |
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Tamara hi, you are nineteen years old and he just gave you the answer don't you see that he wants to be with his ex and he wants to find a way to break it off with you. He's shit not you!!! Answered by Laury D...Age : 34 1 month ago Edit Delete
Posted by:Tamara
Age : 21
Date Added : Aug 15, 2010
thank u for ur advice but y does it always have to come to breaking up wat bout working through things to make it stronger i dont want to lose him its tearing me apart |
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first off, sounds like he isn't secure about himself or your relationship. him throwing his ex's looks @ you is probably to make you feel jelous. sounds like he is jelous. what brought about the fight, if i can ask? if it isn't something serious and he's not willing to budge, then maybe he is to insecure and immature for you. why would you want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you? don't you respect yourself enough, to know you deserve better. i'd say give him some breathing room. let him come to you. ultimately it's your decision to break up with him or not. Answered by karAge : 38 1 month ago Edit Delete
Posted by:Tamara
Age : 21
Date Added : Aug 15, 2010
the whole thing that started this was a comment i posted on facebook talkin bout a stupid arguement thats wat i said i dint go into detail or anything. i appreciate u responding! i do respect myself its just that i get physicllay sick to my stomach thinkin that he or i could ever be with any1 else. |
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first off, sounds like he isn't secure about himself or your relationship. him throwing his ex's looks @ you is probably to make you feel jelous. sounds like he is jelous. what brought about the fight, if i can ask? if it isn't something serious and he's not willing to budge, then maybe he is to insecure and immature for you. why would you want to stay with someone who doesn't respect you? don't you respect yourself enough, to know you deserve better. i'd say give him some breathing room. let him come to you. ultimately it's your decision to break up with him or not. Answered by karAge : 38 1 month ago Edit Delete
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The question is why would you want this relationship to work and what about him makes you think that you love him so much. Answered by ManAge : 49 1 month ago Edit Delete
Posted by:Tamara
Age : 21
Date Added : Aug 15, 2010
thank u for responding i love him because he has been there with me through so much he was with me when i lost my dad and my grandpa and he wasnt always this way wat would make a guy change so much so quickly? i feel like i cant let him go.... |
