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Moving in. I'm 24 and my boyfriend is 30 I have my own apartment and he lives with his mother. yesterday they got into an argument and she put him out now he's calling me but I told him he can't live with me because I'm not ready for that.I've been on my own since I was 20 and I'm still not ready for the living together stage with anyone besides we've only been together a few months I think it's to soon. He thinks I'm cheating on him and I really don't want to be with him since I told him i he cant stay with me. i just don't get it ? In Dating Asked by harlemdime Age : 27 7 Answers harlemdime 415 Views 1 month ago Resolved Vote 1 Tweet Email to Friends Add to Favorites Question Badge Use this wwuask.com question badge in blogs, websites, forums. Copy and paste the HTML below:

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I'm 24 and my boyfriend is 30 I have my own apartment and he lives with his mother. yesterday they got into an argument and she put him out now he's calling me but I told him he can't live with me because I'm not ready for that.I've been on my own since I was 20 and I'm still not ready for the living together stage with anyone besides we've only been together a few months I think it's to soon. He thinks I'm cheating on him and I really don't want to be with him since I told him i he cant stay with me. i just don't get it ?

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sounds like he's using you for a place to stay. don't budge on what you feel is right. if he's acting this way now, if you let him move in with you, it will only get worse. stick to your guns. if he wont except your decision dump him. Answered by karAge : 38 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by kar 1 month ago
In my opinion, if you have any reservations at all, you should follow your instincts and not allow your boyfriend to move in with you. Taking the next step of living together is a serious matter and in my experience is only successful when both parties are excited about the move. I also personally feel that it is a bit presumptuous of your boyfriend to assume that he can stay with you if you have only been dating for a few months...Can you say RED FLAG! I would also wonder if he would have gotten into such a serious argument with his mother if he thought that you would object to him moving in with you...hmmm. Answered by BrutusAge : 37 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by Brutus 1 month ago
Hi, my name is Laury. Harlemdime it's a very difficult question to reply to. However, I applaud you for sticking to what you believe in and staying firm. I have one question if you don't mind me asking, has your boyfriend had sex with another women and are you a Virgin. I do think like you that you at the age of 24 are too young to move in with your boyfriend of 30 years of age. I will ask him first to purpose to you and if he does then you two will get married and he as your husband can move in. If he doesn't then that means that he doesn't love you. Whose knows maybe he wants to move in with you just to have sex,and leave. So,stay like you are. He is not worth it. laurado@hotmail.com email me. Answered by Laury D...Age : 34 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Posted by:harlemdime Age : 27 Date Added : Mar 3, 2010 Vote 0 Hi Laury no im not a virgin i have only been with one person who was my first love and my first everything and we broke up about two years ago. Im just now starting over and getting into the dating scene. my boyfriend now makes the second person i have been intimate with. i appreciate your advice although im not ready for marriage yet either maybe in another year or so i have two more semester's of college before i graduate until then i dont wanna get side tracked Posted by:Laury Dominguez Age : 34 Date Added : Mar 2, 2010 Vote 0 Where you see whose is a who instead and between sex and the comma the and has to be spaced and leave you. Answered by Laury Dominguez 1 month ago
Hi my name is Laury, Harlemdime it's a very diffcult question to reply to. However, Answered by Laury D...Age : 34 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by Laury Dominguez 1 month ago
It is his prerogative to believe what ever he has in mind. You are in the right track on achieving your goal and saving your money for future endeavors. Stay firm with your decision and advise him call 311 and ask for a counselor advisor for his situation. There are many help out there, he just needs to reach out. He will find it. Stay away. You have your life to achieve. Answered by lookswe...Age : 60 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by looksweetie123 1 month ago
It might sound harsh, but he might be using you. As the male in the relationship he should take the lead to provide you with shelter, not the other way around. Answered by nychelpAge : 29 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by nychelp 1 month ago
There is something wrong with this picture. Why did his mother put him out? He has no where to go so he's putting pressure on you to let him move in because if you don't he suspects you're cheating on him. Your instincts are correct and follow them. If he acts this way now imagine if you break up and he won't leave your place. This situation has provided you with a glimpse to the future of what it would be like to live with this guy. Don't let him pressure you into doing what you don't feel is right because it probably isn't. You get it, you just don't want to believe that he is really the way he is. This relationship is going nowhere fast. Don't let him move in. Answered by WomanAge : 37 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by Woman 1 month ago

sounds like he's using you for a place to stay. don't budge on what you feel is right. if he's acting this way now, if you let him move in with you, it will only get worse. stick to your guns. if he wont except your decision dump him.

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In my opinion, if you have any reservations at all, you should follow your instincts and not allow your boyfriend to move in with you. Taking the next step of living together is a serious matter and in my experience is only successful when both parties are excited about the move. I also personally feel that it is a bit presumptuous of your boyfriend to assume that he can stay with you if you have only been dating for a few months...Can you say RED FLAG! I would also wonder if he would have gotten into such a serious argument with his mother if he thought that you would object to him moving in with you...hmmm.

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Hi, my name is Laury.

Harlemdime it's a very difficult question to reply to. However, I applaud you for sticking to what you believe in and staying firm. I have one question if you don't mind me asking, has your boyfriend had sex with another women and are you a Virgin. I do think like you that you at the age of 24 are too young to move in with your boyfriend of 30 years of age. I will ask him first to purpose to you and if he does then you two will get married and he as your husband can move in. If he doesn't then that means that he doesn't love you. Whose knows maybe he wants to move in with you just to have sex,and leave. So,stay like you are. He is not worth it.

laurado@hotmail.com email me.

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Hi Laury no im not a virgin i have only been with one person who was my first love and my first everything and we broke up about two years ago. Im just now starting over and getting into the dating scene. my boyfriend now makes the second person i have been intimate with. i appreciate your advice although im not ready for marriage yet either maybe in another year or so i have two more semester's of college before i graduate until then i dont wanna get side tracked

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Where you see whose is a who instead and between sex and the comma the and has to be spaced and leave you.

Hi my name is Laury,

Harlemdime it's a very diffcult question to reply to. However,

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It is his prerogative to believe what ever he has in mind. You are in the right track on achieving your goal and saving your money for future endeavors. Stay firm with your decision and advise him call 311 and ask for a counselor advisor for his situation. There are many help out there, he just needs to reach out. He will find it. Stay away. You have your life to achieve.

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It might sound harsh, but he might be using you. As the male in the relationship he should take the lead to provide you with shelter, not the other way around.

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There is something wrong with this picture. Why did his mother put him out? He has no where to go so he's putting pressure on you to let him move in because if you don't he suspects you're cheating on him. Your instincts are correct and follow them. If he acts this way now imagine if you break up and he won't leave your place. This situation has provided you with a glimpse to the future of what it would be like to live with this guy. Don't let him pressure you into doing what you don't feel is right because it probably isn't. You get it, you just don't want to believe that he is really the way he is. This relationship is going nowhere fast. Don't let him move in.

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