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sasha

they are an ex for a reason so move on and if your not happy with your current bf then stay single for a while and hang out with your gfs and just have fun. your young and you should be thinking about school and education, you have plenty of time for relationships

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the cat...

i understand reading these answers if you think to yourself "ha! all this is alot easier said then done! these people don't understand how delicate my position is." it's really hard to NOT decide between 2 guys you like, and even harder to tell them that you might like the other one. just be firm and forward with both the ex and the current, and tell them your conflict. once it's all out in the open you can see their reaction and decide which one cares for you. but since the guys are so young, no offence, but either relationship is not going to last long. so just tell both guys your feelings, preferbly at the same time, and just have fun with whichever one you feel understands you situation.it going to be hard to summon up the courage needed to say this to them, but i believe it will be worth it. also remember, worst case senario, you will gain experence in dateing and break-ups so you will be well prepared for them in later life

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S.A.Cables

Don't settle for a jerk - you're 14, you don't need a boyfriend, have a lot of friends, wait for the guy who will really treat you well. You're worth it. But you'll never find the right guy if you waste too much time with losers - and both these guys sound like you're just settling for them. Remember, too, that you shouldn't get too serious with any guy at your age - they're not ready, nor are you. Boys aren't ready to make a real commitment until they're around 25 - which is when their frontal lobe development is complete. Prior to that, they're not thinking with their head, they can't. Take it slowly, don't get too serious, have lots of fun and go slowly!!!

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Bianca

stay with the current!if your fighting with tht other guy its not worth it!And he boke your heart?! NOT WORTH IT!!!!! CURRENT BF

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Marino

hi. this is my 1st & prob last time using this. i stumbled onto the website, saw ur question and felt drawn to answer. So mayB fate, destiny or wutevr lead me here to you, right now...take it as u will:
listen, i'm not saying dump one or the other...i'm also not saying stay w either of them. ur heart will guide u in answering questions like that for urslf, learn to listen to it. What I am saying is that NOW and FOREVER you deserve to be HAPPY. ask urslf what makes u happy...better yet, try to understand that happiness comes from within & that only YOU can ever make urslf TRULY happy. another thing to think about is...as difficult as it might seem to realize while ur seeing things from the inside out is that, honestly, you are limiting ur options. Why limit urslf to this guy or that guy? there are SOOOO many guys out there and you have SOOOO much time ahead of you to choose! MayB neither of these particular guys are good enough for you...they dont seem to appreciate you and, like I said, you deserve to be happy...you deserve the BEST life has to offer! so mayB take a break from dating these guys. BREAKS r some of the healthiest things in life. they give you a chance to re-evaluate ur life and ur current situation. also, they make it possible to make CHANGES! changes r another WONDERFUL thing about life. try not to get STUCK in a situation ur unhappy in for too long...you're wasting time...you should be out there living...HAPPY! while you take a break, look back at the last few months, mayB more, a year, and analyze yourself. compare the current-you to the past-you. what have you learned? how have you changed? have you made mistakes? (HINT: MISTAKES! another phenomenal part of life!!!) mistakes r great cause you can learn from them. they are surefire ways of knowing what is NOT serving you in life. the good thing is we have an endless supply of mistakes available and nobody can ever judge you for them cause everybody make 'em :) so in short, my advice is: take some time for urslf. think about ur life: r u happy? why or why not? where do you want to go in life and what steps do you have to take to get there? what do you want to be doing the next time you decide to take a break & try to get there (HINT #2: these r called goals, also pretty cool things in life)! Last thing...don't forget to spend plenty of time with FAMILY & FRIENDS. BOYFRIENDS aren't everything in life you know ;) best of luck to you!

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