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Sexually Frustrated
I just started having sex with this guy i knew for the past five years and whenever we are making out he reaches an orgasm before me. I'm totally frustrated, I keep telling him romance me more and preform oral sex but he doesn't like it because he feel it takes away from his manhood. He is embrassed because of his situation and rarely calls and whenever he does our conversations are not like before. I'm just not feeling him anymore. What should i do? Very Frustrated.
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is the oral sex mutual and if he still does not want to perform take some time to show him what you like. try self stimulation in front of him and maybe you can get him worked up enough where he will perform better for you. Have you tried sex toys. These are a few options you can try if there is love between you one of these suggestions might help you out. good luck Answered by mikeAge : 55 1 month ago Edit Delete
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is the oral sex mutual and if he still does not want to perform take some time to show him what you like. try self stimulation in front of him and maybe you can get him worked up enough where he will perform better for you. Have you tried sex toys. These are a few options you can try if there is love between you one of these suggestions might help you out. good luck Answered by mikeAge : 55 1 month ago Edit Delete
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i think u should just move on honestly he isnt up to pare with what u need so...what else is there to do? Answered by Mark Jo...Age : 23 1 month ago Edit Delete
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He cares much more about himself than you, if you are happy with him and love him, take him with his faults. Nobody is perfect! But this shows a lacks of concern towards you. Where is your self worth, your self esteem and self confidance. You are with a user. Dump him, he is not worthed. Being selfish is one of the worst charaters of a person. Answered by KrisAge : 33 1 month ago Edit Delete
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If you really care about this person, you should definetly work on this situation. If talking about it didn't help due to the man ego, than the next step is to take matters into your own hands. Try bringing in treats like whipped cream,strawberries,wine,sex toys etc. that will provoke oral sex. Take control in bed and tell him what to do, that way he'll notice what your likes and dislikes are when being intimate. If this doesn't work and you're still unhappy than its time to move on. Answered by StormAge : 29 1 month ago Edit Delete
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he might have an actual health problem, however you may want to consider your relationship with him. Do you see yourself long term with him? is this a sexual relationship? do you want more than just sex? If it's only sex you are interested in, then you probably want to move on as he is not pleasing you. However, if you are looking for something more substantial you should discuss this outside the bedroom, and perhaps seek medical advise. Good luck! Answered by unknownAge : 35 1 month ago Edit Delete
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I think this is completely normal. Apparently this guy wants you a lot, thats why he reaches his orgasm faster than you; that may be one of many reason. But if you really care and like this guy.. I think you should help him out.. Tell him what you need and what pleases you before touching or kissing.. Every single woman has a different way in reaching orgasm and frankly he doesn't know it yet. Answered by KemoAge : 24 1 month ago Edit Delete
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It appears that you have already answered the question for yourself. "I'm just not feeling him anymore". What you see is what you have. His refusal to have a conversation about your needs is indicative on how he will respond to other issues in your relationship. Start going out with other people and stop spending time trying to change someone who is not responsive. Answered by WomanAge : 37 1 month ago Edit Delete
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Age : 32
Date Added : Feb 6, 2010
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