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The world is filled with many types of people to choose from as friends and associates, how should I choose MY friends? How important are my choices of friends to my overall direction in life.
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I personally choose my friends very carefully because my mother(how I hate to sound like my mother lol) told me years ago people judge you by the company you keep and as I get older I see that it is so very true.As to how to choose your friends you really must choose people that compliment you as a person,people that you have things in common with,one more thing as you get older you'll see you will have to count all your friends on both hands but your true friends you can count on one hand and have fingers left over.....Good Luck Answered by jamesmomAge : 39 1 month ago Edit Delete
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In life if your lucky you will fine those friends that will be with you forever. Having your friends is like picking your favorite flavor of ice cream or your favorite color. However, you must chose your friends with your eyes open, you can't go blind folded. To chose a friend I pick them blind folded because I am the type of friend that trust in everyone. Nevertheless, the way the world is now or days my recommendation is to pick your friends with your eyes opened. The type of friend that you pick represents who you are. In life the type of friends that your seen with puts you in the popularity list, and if those friends are the ones that they are in the bad crowed then you would be categorized as not a good person to be with. So, Friends chose me as your friend and you would be seen with good eyes. Answered by Laury D...Age : 34 1 month ago Edit Delete
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Friends are very important in relation to the overall direction of your life. The saying "There's no fellowship with fools." is in the Bible. I am not a Bible-thumper but this advice is crucial. You should not waste time with people who do not have similar or even more far-reaching goals in life such as yourself. They should people you can learn to trust, admire and respect - all the elements of love. They also must be willing to give good advice, say things you don't want to hear and on the reciprical, they should also we willing to listen to good advice. I also very much value in open-minded person. People who find it hard to honorably disagree with me, don't gain respect -vs- people who may disagree with me but are not saying my opinion is trash in their next sentence. You follow? Friends are very important - they bring a necessary positive energy to your life and help you see in life things that may not be obvious to you and they also help you enjoy a good life. Choose your friends very carefully. Even if you only have one (1) good friend, that's all you need. They should also have a similar value system. For example, if you have a friend who's exciting, mad-fun to be around and always the life of the party but in the areas that matter, they are totally irresponsible and heading for a crash, that's not a good friend. Needy people aren't good friends either because they usually can't be there for you the way they expect you to be there for them - they just take and don't give. Answered by KaziAge : 45 1 month ago Edit Delete
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If you are interested in making friends with someone you have met, you might want to ask yourself, ‘Who are his or her friends?’ The type of close associates someone has tells much about the person himself. Also, what opinion do mature and respectable people in the community have of him? In addition, it is wise to consider not only how potential friends treat us but also how they treat others, particularly those from whom they have nothing to gain. Unless a person displays good qualities—such as honesty, integrity, patience, and consideration—at all times and to all people, what guarantee is there that he will always treat you well? Answered by nychelpAge : 29 1 month ago Edit Delete
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If you are interested in making friends with someone you have met, you might want to ask yourself, ‘Who are his or her friends?’ The type of close associates someone has tells much about the person himself. Also, what opinion do mature and respectable people in the community have of him? In addition, it is wise to consider not only how potential friends treat us but also how they treat others, particularly those from whom they have nothing to gain. Unless a person displays good qualities—such as honesty, integrity, patience, and consideration—at all times and to all people, what guarantee is there that he will always treat you well? Answered by nychelpAge : 29 1 month ago Edit Delete
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I agree tell me who your friends are and i'll tell you who you are.Stick with the winners and you will become a winner.Another good saying is "shoot for the moon and if you miss you will land amongst the stars" Choose your friends selectively and wisely. Answered by ganeshaAge : 2 1 month ago Edit Delete
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Often people become our friends based on commonality of interest. You will find friends often where you go to school, work or worship. Leave yourself open to the unexpected and don't close off potential friends simply based on first impressions. I believe in the phrase " look who you walk with and you'll know who you are". Answered by WomanAge : 37 1 month ago Edit Delete
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