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aoife

if you dont want to speak about it then just replace the pictures with some of you and him 2gether instead if he questions why and then ends up all defensive about it then dump him , he'l may have used you as his distraction or if his ex lived close by he probably trying to make her jealious and want to get back with him , either way it sounds though he's defiantly still in love with her.

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Dr T

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That he is turned on by her or is not emotionally over her. When ur over someone u become emotionally disconnected and I had to throw my exfiance's pictures away after I got married and was going through my stuff with her. I said we were just still friends but gave it some thought and decided it was more important to think about her feelings than be selfish and keep them even though it would bother her. That's love, thinking of the other person before yourself...

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cas

I would say he still has feelings for her.If he hasn't why doesn't he put them away or at least into another room? I wouldn't put up with that.

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Dr T

Why don't you just ask him. Before you try to create a reason just let him tell you in his own words. You may be in a relationship with him but he could still may have feelings for his ex-wife. Possibly if your relationship in the future has more meaning to both of you he may eventually take it down. If this bothers you then you should think about sharing this with him. He may not even be aware that the picture is causing you concern. A relationship has to be based on trust. Trust to say and do the right thing.

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matt

Posted by:matt Age : 30 Date Added : May 28, 2011 Thumbs up Vote 0

Of course yes he may still have his ex-wife picture!. Maybe for one of two reasons which both of you had a consent of. On the contrary, the picture should not be in his room. Once there is a demise between them, it also terminate the picture. I don't understand why some men still hang up their ex-wife's picture in room while they now have their new girl friend. Frankly speaking buddy, your boyfriend is not 100 pecent emotionally detached from her. There's still some relationship feelings between them. If come under closer scrutiny and follow this up, you will find out that absolutely they were still puting something behind your back that you are not aware of. Take it easy with him and find out closely the kind of relationship among them. You can do this through the help of friends or probably your family memebers. So, the best solution is to trash away the picture or if he have children put it in the children room. It is not worthy for that kind of picture to still be in his room!.