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What is the right balance between helping others and helping yourself, when the two conflict?
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The solution is to turn our learned helplessness into optimism according to Martin Seligman. I think that if you analyze the outcome of conflict ultimately you can gain great wisdom and understanding for the present and the future challenges in life.I think it's all about turning your weakness into strength.I personally would continue to do good in life because the wisdom and knowledge acheived regardless of consequences would strengthen me to help others in need.The challenge is to turn the imbalance into inner strength instead of giving yourself an excuse. Answered by ganeshaAge : 2 1 month ago Edit Delete |
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The key to your question is the word conflict. It is admirable to help others and we do gain a benefit from acts of generosity. When these good deeds cause us conflicts in our own lives then one should think twice before offering assistance. We should be willing to assist others as long as it does not create an unbalance in our own lives. Answered by kidsfor...Age : 40 1 month ago Edit Delete |