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Goodscout

This question is a very touchy one... not to mention delicate. There is never a good way of starting a conversation with your girlfriend about her "possible in fidelity." The way I would like my boyfriend to start the conversation with me about my "possible in fidelity" is that he takes me out to dinner and while we waiting, "he can start the conversation like this; honey I feel that you are starting to be distant from me. Maybe is my fault....probably I haven't spent time with you or we haven't had that much time to talk," I won't be mad if but I need you to be honest with me is there someone else in your life or can we fix our relationship."
With this in mind don't be direct and don't make her feel off guard. And she will tell you the truth.

Answered by Laury D...Age : 34 1 month ago Edit Delete

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trev4lcarp

I think it is best to be honest about how you "feel". Perhaps you could tell her "I feel uncomfortable as if we are moving apart or that we are losing a connection". "I feel uneasy as if there is something coming between us." "I feel as if I am alone and that you might be losing interest." "I guess I am just looking for reassurance that you are happy?"

Answered by trev4lcarpAge : 32 1 month ago Edit Delete

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nychelp

Unless you have solid proof you have to believe what she says. Tell her how much you like/love her and how you would never hurt her like that and that you want complete sincerity from her. And if she feels something is missing in your relationship to please communicate so you can work together towards it.

Answered by nychelpAge : 29 1 month ago Edit Delete

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