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Usually that indicates a physical problem called dyspareunia It can be cured. Also if the man is penetrating too deep he may be hitting the back of your cervix. And in certain positions it can hurt when the penis hits the vaginal wall in some places...

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Laury D...

Hi Brook,

Well honey sex with penetration does hurt because his private part is getting into your virginal wall, so it has to hurt. After all he is putting pressure. I do have one question thought if this is not your first time doing it with him, then why does it still hurt... in fact you should enjoy it even more after the first time. Maybe, the problem is that after your fiancee does you... you might be worrying that he might leave you. You two difinitly have a serious problem with your sex lives. Maybe, its time that you two change positions when your having sex, use your imagination.

Good luck

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brooklyn

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actually, he is my first sex partner..he disvirgined me..but..da sex dnt hurt dat much, wen he get deep...as in deep penetration..dats wat i mean...my friend told me maybe bcoz he has a long penis..i guess dats da issue..

Woman

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Intercourse pain, or dyspareunia, can cause problems in a couple’s sexual relationship. Painful intercourse can have negative emotional effects in addition to the physical pain, so the problem should be addressed as soon as it becomes evident.
What causes female sexual pain?

In many cases, a woman can experience pain during sex if there is not sufficient vaginal lubrication. In these cases, the pain can be resolved if the female becomes more relaxed, if the amount of foreplay is increased, or if the couple uses a sexual lubricant.

In some cases, a woman can experience painful intercourse if one of the following conditions is present:

* Vaginismus — This is a common condition in which there is a spasm in the vaginal muscles, mainly caused by the fear of being hurt.
* Vaginal infections — These conditions are common and include yeast infections.
* Problems with the cervix (opening to the uterus) — The penis can reach the cervix at maximum penetration. Therefore, problems with the cervix (such as infections) can cause pain during deep penetration.
* Problems with the uterus — These may include fibroids that can cause deep intercourse pain.
* Endometriosis — A condition in which the endometrium (tissue lining the uterus) grows outside the uterus.
* Problems with the ovaries — Such problems might include cysts on the ovaries.
* Pelvic Inflammatory Disease — The tissues deep inside become badly inflamed, and the pressure of intercourse causes deep pain.
* Ectopic pregnancy — A pregnancy in which a fertilized egg develops outside of the uterus.
* Menopause — The vaginal lining can lose its normal moisture and become dry.
* Intercourse too soon after surgery or childbirth.
* Sexually transmitted diseases — These may include genital warts, herpes sores, or other STDs.
* Injury to the vulva or vagina — These injuries may include a tear from childbirth or from a cut (episiotomy) in the perenium (area of skin between the vagina and the anus) that is made during labor.

How can sexual pain in women be treated?

Some treatments for female sexual pain do not require medical intervention. For example, in the case of painful intercourse after pregnancy, wait at least six weeks after childbirth before attempting intercourse. Make sure to practice gentleness and patience. In cases in which there is vaginal dryness or a lack of lubrication, try water-based lubricants.

Some treatments for sexual pain do require a doctor’s care. If vaginal dryness is due to menopause, ask a health care professional about estrogen creams or other prescription medications. Other causes of painful intercourse also may require prescription medications.

For cases of sexual pain in which there is no underlying medical cause, sexual therapy might be helpful. Some individuals may need to resolve issues such as guilt, inner conflicts regarding sex, or feelings regarding past abuse.
When does female sexual pain require a doctor's care?

Contact your doctor if there are symptoms such as bleeding, genital lesions, irregular periods, vaginal discharge, or involuntary vaginal muscle contractions. For pain with no underlying medical cause, ask the doctor for a referral to a certified sex counselor.

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