Why so many people of my same age (24) find so easy to go clubbing, dance, flirt and have fun, and I am afraid of it?

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Why so many people of my same age (24) find so easy to go clubbing, dance, flirt and have fun, and I am afraid of it? Maybe is that I am anti-social or it is because my parents overprotected me and never let me go clubbing. Do I need professional help or should I try to face one of my biggest fears. In Fears Asked by axionboy Age : 26 6 Answers axionboy 528 Views 1 month ago Resolved Vote 1 Tweet Email to Friends Add to Favorites Question Badge Use this wwuask.com question badge in blogs, websites, forums. Copy and paste the HTML below:

Maybe is that I am anti-social or it is because my parents overprotected me and never let me go clubbing. Do I need professional help or should I try to face one of my biggest fears.

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Be yourself and don't act or do what others tell you. Don't be a follower be a leader. Respect yourself and others and they will respect you as well. Don't be a player because that can get you into trouble or worst yet a disease. Good luck Answered by EveAge : 49 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 0 Answered by Eve 1 month ago
im 24 also and i know what you feel. i actually fell into the club scene early a few years ago but after seeing so many fights break out i just stopped going. my advice to you is if you wanna go out go to lounges were there is an adult vibe and the mood is really mellow and you'll have a good time. Flirting is a little harder to grasp if your shy you have to start with making friends who have open personalities were you start to feel comfortable around them and that will inturn make you more comfortable in your own skin to talk to people. and last you have to hang out at places were everyone just wants to have fun and not judge. if you want you can email me ill try to help you fanay22@yahoo.com Answered by harlemdimeAge : 27 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 2 Answered by harlemdime 1 month ago
Same age as you and im gonna let you on in a little secret that will help you let go and be free so you can be able to go clubbing and flirt a little if you want to. So her goes, you have to KNOW who you are and love yourself, be proud of what you got and accept what you don't have. Explanation: Are you the type to club and dance all night or are you the lounge type, the person who goes with a group of BFF's, who drink and laugh, chit chat all night. Love yourself and be proud of who you are, are you funny, very smart, if your shy play the shy into your advantage. Dress real cute, put on some cute girl make up and chill with your girls and make eye contact with guys, if you can perfect it your can draw up any guy you want, even a little hand wave would get a guy saying, hey she's cute, I wanna talk to her. Accept what you dont have. If you dont got big boobs or a butt thats way out there, maybe you dont have the best dance move, DONT SWEAT IT, because NO ONE is perfect. The trick to applying this is to play up what you got to your advantage. Answered by jeri3303Age : 26 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 1 Posted by:Eve Age : 49 Date Added : Aug 7, 2010 Vote 0 This advice is for a girl and this is a boy hon. Answered by jeri3303 1 month ago
This fear is a very healthy one. I am not much of a club and party person, though most of my friends are. I am simply more mature then they are. You wont find anything great or fulfilling there and there are much better ways to have fun. However I wouldnt say I fear it. Maybe you should try to think of what part of it makes you scared? The possibility of rape? While you are at it, try to think of what you would really get out of it? What would make it fun? Is it really something you want to do? Or is it just because your friends do it and like it that you want to? Do the smart thing and listen to the comments left before me, stay away. Answered by MouseAge : 23 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 1 Answered by Mouse 1 month ago
You are gifted and fortunate probably because of your quality lifestyle and inexperience.In clubs drugs, alcohol, murder, rape, assaults and unwanted pregnancies occur.There is a saying "Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are" Look for enjoyment in respectable places with friends who can help you in life. Also, you're not alone. Answered by ganeshaAge : 2 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 2 Answered by ganesha 1 month ago
In life we all follow the tune to a different drummer. You need to find those activities and individuals with whom you feel comfortable. The question is whether you're concerned that you are not having fun or are you assuming that they are having more fun doing those activities. By the question you asked I believe that you are on the right track to finding your own solution. Try going out with friends and allow yourself to see what they do and then determine for yourself if that is what you want. Life is about taking risks but never losing sight of who you are and try to become someone that you're not just to try to fit in. Only embrace those things that make you feel happy and don't compromise the person you are. Answered by webmasterAge : 44 1 month ago Edit Delete Vote 1 Posted by:RCRC2 Age : 55 Date Added : Jan 28, 2010 Vote 1 I agree with this answer so will not anwer myself. Answered by webmaster 1 month ago

Be yourself and don't act or do what others tell you. Don't be a follower be a leader. Respect yourself and others and they will respect you as well. Don't be a player because that can get you into trouble or worst yet a disease. Good luck

Answered by EveAge : 49 1 month ago Edit Delete

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im 24 also and i know what you feel. i actually fell into the club scene early a few years ago but after seeing so many fights break out i just stopped going. my advice to you is if you wanna go out go to lounges were there is an adult vibe and the mood is really mellow and you'll have a good time. Flirting is a little harder to grasp if your shy you have to start with making friends who have open personalities were you start to feel comfortable around them and that will inturn make you more comfortable in your own skin to talk to people. and last you have to hang out at places were everyone just wants to have fun and not judge. if you want you can email me ill try to help you fanay22@yahoo.com

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Same age as you and im gonna let you on in a little secret that will help you let go and be free so you can be able to go clubbing and flirt a little if you want to. So her goes, you have to KNOW who you are and love yourself, be proud of what you got and accept what you don't have. Explanation: Are you the type to club and dance all night or are you the lounge type, the person who goes with a group of BFF's, who drink and laugh, chit chat all night. Love yourself and be proud of who you are, are you funny, very smart, if your shy play the shy into your advantage. Dress real cute, put on some cute girl make up and chill with your girls and make eye contact with guys, if you can perfect it your can draw up any guy you want, even a little hand wave would get a guy saying, hey she's cute, I wanna talk to her. Accept what you dont have. If you dont got big boobs or a butt thats way out there, maybe you dont have the best dance move, DONT SWEAT IT, because NO ONE is perfect. The trick to applying this is to play up what you got to your advantage.

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Posted by:Eve Age : 49 Date Added : Aug 7, 2010 Vote 0

This advice is for a girl and this is a boy hon.

This fear is a very healthy one. I am not much of a club and party person, though most of my friends are. I am simply more mature then they are. You wont find anything great or fulfilling there and there are much better ways to have fun. However I wouldnt say I fear it. Maybe you should try to think of what part of it makes you scared? The possibility of rape? While you are at it, try to think of what you would really get out of it? What would make it fun? Is it really something you want to do? Or is it just because your friends do it and like it that you want to?

Do the smart thing and listen to the comments left before me, stay away.

Answered by MouseAge : 23 1 month ago Edit Delete

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You are gifted and fortunate probably because of your quality lifestyle and inexperience.In clubs drugs, alcohol, murder, rape, assaults and unwanted pregnancies occur.There is a saying "Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are" Look for enjoyment in respectable places with friends who can help you in life. Also, you're not alone.

Answered by ganeshaAge : 2 1 month ago Edit Delete

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In life we all follow the tune to a different drummer. You need to find those activities and individuals with whom you feel comfortable. The question is whether you're concerned that you are not having fun or are you assuming that they are having more fun doing those activities. By the question you asked I believe that you are on the right track to finding your own solution. Try going out with friends and allow yourself to see what they do and then determine for yourself if that is what you want. Life is about taking risks but never losing sight of who you are and try to become someone that you're not just to try to fit in. Only embrace those things that make you feel happy and don't compromise the person you are.

Answered by webmasterAge : 44 1 month ago Edit Delete

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Posted by:RCRC2 Age : 55 Date Added : Jan 28, 2010 Vote 1

I agree with this answer so will not anwer myself.

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