Hello Sunflower,
Its not clerar how long your engagement is for, but you need to ask him to clarify his answer to you "Yes/No" is not what you should be hearing from the man your planning to spend your life with, not to mention the cost/effort and time your going to put into that special day. Im not sure of his age, but a man can go well into his late 40's and even 50's before he decides marriage is something he wants. He's obviously not being honest with you about something. How long did you date before he proposed and was the proposal due to any pressure from you to do so. Never pressure anyone to do anything, they have not initiated themselves. Whast you have revealed are tell tell signs about something, obviously doubt on his part. Unfortunately men don't feel like the clock is running out like women do and I understand your request/need to move the relationship further, but your obviously not on the same page. I suggest a dinner out with you and him at the tabvle only, a fewe drinks and them ask him "baby what did you mean by yes and no to marrying me? FYI....just because he loves you, doesn't mean he wants to mary you, men are just strange that way. Ultimately, if your not happy with his answer, I would put it off. You may have to consider moving on or determine if marriage is that important to you. Good Luck adn God Bless you.......DJ
Answered by HonestyAge : 48 1 month ago
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