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Eve

It's not that your not friendly it's that your shy and scared to be rejected. It is not hard to make friends it is just hard to pick the right one. Be careful because a lot of people are fake friends. Good luck.

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Rezvin

You are very brave for admitting that you have trouble being friendly. Your question is how can I make some friends? Well you've just taken the first step, the way you make friends is by listening to other people like yourself and allowing other people listening to you. In addition, you have to expose your soul out there so that other people can see you for who you really are. It's not hard making friends... you have one in me. But, most of all try to be sincere, honest and gracious.
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Your friend Laury

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lilyfly

I have a question for you: I aren't you friendly? You should try answering that about yourself. What is your past history making friends.
Sure its hard to make friends especially when you have been picked on are verbally abused in school. You create a barrier to protect yourself from getting heart. However When you are young you really don't know what you want because your to busy paying attention to everyone else trying to find your true identity.
But once you open up yourself everyone else will slowly get to know you for who you are.
God give us a golden rule to follow : To love your neighbor as you love yourself. Everybody needs a friend , just open up yourself and be yourself.

Hope this help.

Your friend.

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kwave10...

As for depression I would recomend the radio station kwve 107.9fm or their site http://www.kwve.org/

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freeMe

when your walking into class just say hi to some people once in awhile eventually they will start a conversation.

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Eve

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Say hello to everyone be pleasant, kind and smile.

nychelp

There is an even more important factor—the most fundamental one. Nearly 2,000 years ago, Jesus showed that the key to success in all human relations is unselfish love. He taught: “Just as you want men to do to you, do the same way to them.” (Luke 6:31) This teaching has come to be known as the Golden Rule. Yes, the only way to have real friends is to be an unselfish, giving friend yourself. In other words, to have a friend, be a friend. To be successful, friendship must be more about giving than about getting. We must be prepared to put our friend’s needs ahead of our own preferences and convenience.

Manuela, quoted previously, notes: “Just as Jesus said it would, true happiness comes from giving. The person receiving is happy, but the giver is even happier. We can give simply by sincerely asking how our friends are, by trying to understand their problems, and by doing all we can without waiting for them to ask.” So reach out to others, including the friends you already have. Strengthen your relationships. Do not sacrifice friendship for less-noble and less-fulfilling pursuits. Friends deserve time and attention. Ruben, in Italy, comments: “Taking time is fundamental to finding and keeping friends. First of all, it takes time to be a good listener. We can all improve in listening and in showing our interest in what others say by not interrupting.”

Another key element of happy, long-term friendships is mutual respect. This includes showing consideration for others’ feelings. You want your friends to be tactful and discreet when their tastes or opinions differ from yours, don’t you? Shouldn’t you treat them the same?—Romans 12:10.

Another way we show respect is by not smothering our friends. Real friendship is neither jealous nor possessive. At 1 Corinthians 13:4, the Bible states: “Love is not jealous.” So guard against the tendency to want your friends all to yourself. If they confide in others, do not take offense and perhaps even shun them. Learn that we all need to widen out in our friendships. Allow your friends to develop other friendships too.

Consider also your friends’ need for privacy. Individuals, as well as married couples, need time for themselves. While you should not hesitate to reach out to others, be balanced and thoughtful, and do not wear out your welcome with your friends. The Bible cautions: “Make your foot rare at the house of your fellowman, that he may not have his sufficiency of you.”—Proverbs 25:17.

(AWAKE magazine DEC 8, 2004)

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Goodscout

As individuals we ourselves are like magnets. People draw the attention of others who in turn seek their acquaintance. Since you say you need some friends then maybe you are having difficulty in expressing your self in a friendly way. Whenever you speak or approach someone you don't know you are taking a chance or a risk in life. The easiest way to approach or be with people without taking a risk is in a group setting. Seek out those things that you enjoy doing or learning about and join that group in your place of worship or school. Volunteering is one of the best ways to meet people and make friends. Normally people who volunteer to help for a cause tend to be easier to meet. Look for opportunities to do good this for others and you'll be surprised ho quickly you'll have new friends.

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