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I hooked my friend up with my fiancee's friend...now they having issues and the whole blame is all on me....she calls me every time cursing me out for setting her up. Its so heartbreaking, am confused.. In Friendship Asked by brooklyn Age : 33 8 Answers
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Brooklyn, My wife and I were set up by my best friend and we dated for 4 months and then were married. It has been 9 years and we are still together. If n e thing ever happened between us, it would be my fault or her's. It has nothing to do with you. You just introduced them and what happened in their relationship is between them. If any thing you should be telling her it's her fault, depending on the circumstances of the issues. If he's cheating , THAT'S HIM. If SHE'S TOO CLINGY FOR HIM , that's her. You have to realize and forgive yourself for n e thing you think you did. Unless he is wanting to be with you now. Then that is another story. Then it's him because he didn't make the move before they got together... Answered by Ask the...Age : 30 1 month ago Edit Delete
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dont let her blame u. all u did was hook them up. it is their fault they r having problems. tell her that she needs to handle the situation by gettin stuff figured out with her bf, or they need to break up. it just means they wernt meant to b together thats all. DONT BLAME YOURSELF all it will cause is more stress on yourself and one friendship less. Answered by tabithaAge : 27 1 month ago Edit Delete
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First thing you should understand, it is not your fought for your friends problem with her boyfriend. How could you have every imagen that they were going to have problems in their relaionship? The other thing you should realize that she deep inside did not mean what she said; when people are hurting inside they say things they do not mean. Answered by lilyflyAge : 34 1 month ago Edit Delete
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i agree Angel8263 dont answer the phone or door to her until she can opologize for being such a biotch to you, shes obviosly not a good friend for blaming you for her probs. and not seeing you were tryna help her out. Answered by Samy NixonAge : 21 1 month ago Edit Delete
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With love! Tell her it was never your intentions to hook her up w/someone she'd be unhappy with. You were hoping this would bring joy by ending her loneliness. Then tell her you've been heart broken over this and confused on what to do, but now have realized this is HER problem. There is nothing you can do. You thought you were doing a good thing for her; you've apologized and now YOU need to let it go...let her figure this out. It's not fair for her to blame you any longer, don't answer her calls until she can make peace with you or this situation on her own Answered by Angel8263Age : 49 1 month ago Edit Delete
Posted by:brooklyn
Age : 33
Date Added : Jul 29, 2010
2 be sincere...i didnt really hook dem up...i only told her abt da guy..and she spoke 2 him wiv my phone...and b4 i knew wat was happenin...she added him on facebook, started mailin him and she even decided 2 go 2 london 2 pay him a visit....da relationship collapsed in london....bcoz she wanted 2 help da dude wiv papers 2 come 2 da united state...and she was askin for $8,000....and i dnt even kno aw it got ugly...she accused me of settin her up wiv a guy dat need help wiv his papers...i was shocked...coz aw wud i kno he will like 2 come 2 da U.s....he is my fiancee's frnd & i hardly kno anythin abt him...she abused da dude dat he has a small Dick...so unfair..she painted me black.. 
Posted by:webmaster
Age : 44
Date Added : Jul 29, 2010
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Let it ride itself out and stay out of it. Maybe you were just not set to be a cupid. Don't take it personally and learn your lesson by in the future not getting yourself involved. Even if they got married and had a great life together and then got a divorce. You would still be blamed for introducing them. Stay clear of this conversation for awhile. Answered by WomanAge : 37 1 month ago Edit Delete
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