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I have a son who has night mare's all the time,he is very angry and aggressive and does not realize the seriousness of his actions.
Think hes needing to talk about his anger a do believe he is hurting inside but is frightened to say any thing as he has a fear he going to be taken from his family or his mums going to die the same as his dad?. i will try make thins sound more understanding sorry? my sons been abused,had his dad selfishly take his own life without a good bye or any thing? hes always been a angry child from early on as a baby.i am at ma wits end sometimes because don't know how it started and now its worse but now he has all these emotions and questions that he cant get answers and doesn't know what to be doing he is an amazing son ,polite kind and a heart of gold but at home hes got a very different personality and I'm being serious. I've virtually had to restrain him to stop him lashing out at me now he just pulls a full blown fist back but has not yet connected but when u see the evil in his eyes its scary. he loves attention and has recently started since dad died being more affectionate,cuddly and clingy,he wanted your attention every 2 minutes just about but it was good as he never showed me that b4 as hes always had this hard man image put on him and think hes now relieved slightly that he'll have freedom from his dad who has made him feel so terrible that it will b hard to get the we poppsies we all love dearly today came and show us his celebration moves and his wise talk when he gets a we talking tae fae mum (pick up the phone man pick up the phone hahaha he that good u cant help laugh and he knows it tho and needs to get help and be able to manage things himself for when hes an adult and still going strong at the footy and mum will still be at the side w8n for u 2 come of the pitch so a can still give u a big cuddle n awe the kisses that a give u and tell u how proud i am of u and that's before a asked the score hahaha.
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i know this mite sound cheesy but feeling cards! some kids hav a hard time letting people know how they really feel and it can make them really mad (howi know is i am one of those ppl). make cards with different faces, emotions... some people feel alot at once and he mite give you all the cards when he hands you how he feels ask him what makes him feel lik this...sometime he mite not want to say why or know why he feels the way he does. ask him how you can show him you will never leave him. kids are very smart and sometimes jus need a little help sorting out everything that is going on Answered by tahcorg...Age : 23 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete
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Your son is ill and needs help dealing with his aggression and mood swings. Seek medical attention and do it now before he hurts someone or himself. Answered by ManAge : 49 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete
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first i would try counseling if that doesn't work i would find him a very good try a guy first if that doesn't work either then i'd go to a girl b/c if he's too aggressive then he might (no offense) abuse her trust me i know what i'm talking about i was abused by my EX-father too. he went so low that he choked me up against his truck while my brothers and sister were watching while we were making the exchange of me and my brothers and sister IN THE POLICE STATION PARKING LOT. i was saved by a little boy about the age of four who was driving by and looked out his window saw me being choked and said to his mom, "mommy that daddy is not being very nice to his son." god was looking out for me that day. i know b/c if that little boy didn't look out his window i most certainly would have died that day. well good luck with his son hope it all goes well. Bye. Answered by MitchellAge : 18 1 month ago Report Abuse Edit Delete
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