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if he forced u its rape get them locked up! i know things like this are hard to forget and they come back in your mind at the worst time but just remember what goes around comes around and God will not let them go unpunished! i hav been in that place of disgust when all you want is to die and forget, but it will get easyer to deal with trust me i know it mite not seem that way now but in time! Answered by tahcorg...Age : 23 1 month ago Edit Delete
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Roxy only you can take control of the situation and change it. It is not correct to enable any person to hurt anyone. You have not mentioned what or how she enabled her boyfriend to hurt you. Obviously it is very real to you and is causing you a great deal of anguish. You have to first share your concern and feelings with your cousin to see if she realizes how what she has done has affected you. Ask for her help in correcting the situation. If this doesn't work then you must limit your contact with both of them. Only you have the power to remove yourself from harms way and learn how to avoid them in the future. Unfortunately life is about trust and trial and error and eventually we learn to know who to trust. Answered by Dr TAge : 56 1 month ago Edit Delete
Posted by:roxy
Age : 22
Date Added : Sep 14, 2010
And after that I don't talk to any of them I ignore them and I dont look at them cuz they discussed me
Posted by:roxy
Age : 22
Date Added : Sep 13, 2010
This happened 3years ago and I still have a very hard time with this and I keep thinking that its too late and this is the first time I said anything 
Posted by:webmaster
Age : 44
Date Added : Sep 13, 2010
When people find themselves in a threatening or fearful situation their response at times is difficult to explain. You were possibly trying to escape the only way you could by mentally escaping and putting yourself somewhere else. The important thing is where do you go from here? You should try to confide in someone you trust that will be near to you in helping you resolve this issue. If you have been physically violated you do have the right to report this to the authorities. You should reconsider whether you want to associate with your cousin anymore. I recommend that you seek some help and not suffer alone.
Posted by:roxy
Age : 22
Date Added : Sep 13, 2010
This is very hard to type in sorry if I didn't explain fully the first time
Posted by:roxy
Age : 22
Date Added : Sep 13, 2010
We'll I had no idea that this would happen cause all we were doing was playing a card game and my cousin was whispering in her bf ear and then he started crawling twards me and well he put his hand down my pants and I tried to get away but my cousin pushed me down so I crossed my legs tight so he couldn't do anything but my cousin pulled them apart and said we both know u want it and he continued. I was so scared when this happened my mind just went somewhere else, why did my mind do that it doesn't make sense? |
